FEELINGS

Hello,and straight to the point, I think every creature has got feelings as shown by the response given and that depends on the situation.

Our feelings are a natural response to our thoughts and intentions. We don’t really choose our feelings directly. Our feelings are a feedback mechanism. They indicate whether we’re moving into alignment with our true desires (positive feelings) or out of alignment (negative feelings).We feel good when we’re moving towards what we want, and we feel bad when we’re moving away from what we want. And that movement is more about thought and intention than it is.
Well, for the moment this is what I have learnt and still discovering more about feeling and will keep you updated.

Now thinking about accepting our selves rather self acceptance, do we really value our selves? Or do we compromise?I believe most people simply compromise. They don’t fully accept themselves as they are, but nor are they fully comitted to lifelong growth. I think that’s a lame solution though. Why not have both? Why not fully accept yourself as you are and also be totally committed to lifelong growth? Can’t you enjoy both? Is there a way around this apparent conflict?Why does there seem to be a conflict between self-acceptance and growth anyway? I think the conflict is actually a result of a particular mindset.
personally I would rather accept my self than compromise, I dont want to fight awar that is never ending... u know what I mean?
Anyways, this is enough for today wish you all the best and be good to ur selves.

Treasures of life.

Hi there, came across this poem by Frank Armanno and how true are the words in it.
Often times we do not realise how beautiful life is and all we do is blame our selves for all that has happened or even blame our friends. I have learnt that no matter what happened or happens the things we do will always in away affect our lives either positively or negatively the same for the people we meet, all we need to do is live life at atime and just as the poem below says learn to appreciate life in its different challenging ways. I hope you will all learn something from this, do enjoy...



In my mind there's always aplace on earth where you find treasure.
it can be found in natural elements, gold, silver, & diamonds.
It can be treasures buried or lost by people who stole for pleasure,
A metal treasure hunter is always looking for the right sounds.
The act of searching in some way, is often froth with high pressure.



There are other kinds of treasures people find exciting & valuable,
they can be physical, mental, visual, spiritual &, imaginary.
The value is always relative to how individuals value unclassifiable,
for if the aim is money, a spiritual find would be contrary.
Big treasures are sometimes found in, a psychic mind predictable.



I discovered good new treasures because I followed with a heart,
it led me to a unique way of life that I would live over again.
Some childhood friends I had found I still treasure them all to start,
some have passed over but I'm still richer for knowing them.
And there's my wife for life & children, I thank them for their part



Never forget that life is full of unseen & unknown human soul strife,
make sure you go through life marking all heart felt meanings.
We never see value in human friends in a lifetime full of drum & fife,
but, a heart force of love in us all will start a souls dreamings.
Nothing is more rewarding when you remember, Treasures Of Life.


What more can I say...? Life is simply beautiful!!

JUST ME....

Seems today am being hit by the blogville spirit, I have this passion that i don't seem to understand where it has come from, now just wanna get honest with ma self and here we go;
1. Honestly, are you in love right now?
Yes.... am definately in love, but with my self...

2. Honestly, what color is your underwear?
Pink. Its not my favourite colour though but picked it up and thought would look nice on it...now, I wore it for me and no one else.

3. Honestly, what's on your mind right now?
A test I have at school, I haven't read as yet and gal the day is drawing nearer and what else?....... i have to think.

4. Honestly, what are you doing right now?
Blogging. I'm also working on my desk.

5. Honestly, what did you do today?
The day is still going on lets wait and see.....

6. Honestly, do you think you are attractive?
People say I am...how can people be wrong?...lol!

7. Did you do anything bad today?
No, besides the day is still young..

8. Honestly, do you watch Disney channel?
No, I even have no clue about it.

9. Why do you blog?
its apassion i have, and well just love it and also gives me the opportunity to express what i think freely.

10. Honestly, what makes you happy most of the time?
My family, my job on a good day and every day life, I love the challenges.

11. Honestly, do you bite your nails?
Wow! yes I bite my nails occasionally its ahabit I have been struggling with since my childhood days.

12. Honestly, what is your mood right now?
very happy i bet

13. Honestly, who do you want to see at this very moment?
my brothers and sisters

14. Honestly, do you have a deep dark secret?
Secret? Yes, but not dark as such.

15. Honestly, do you hate someone right now?
Absolutely NO! Why should I?

16. Honestly, who/what do you want to hug right now?
My grandie, its been long long... if only she appeared now..

17. Honestly, does your wrist hurt?
Hurting from doing what? Am not boxer or hand wrestler who I think do have wrists that hurt.

18. Honestly, are you in denial?
In denial of what?

19. Honestly, wouldn't you rather be having sex right now?
Pls don't mention sex to me...don't even get me started!

20. Honestly, is it easier to talk on Blogger than in person?
No, its not some things are better said to the particular individuals blogger will definately expose that.

21. Honestly, does anyone like you?
I think a lot of people like me. At least I hope so.

22. Honestly, is it going anywhere with them?
yeah, its going every where you wanna name.I wonder who....?

24. Honestly, did you answer all these questions honestly?
This is honest as honesty is.

7 weird things about me...

1. I don't visit people. Most times people who want to see me come to me... am not being proud but its just lazy me when it comes to visiting.

2. I always long for that day when I was alil' gal, actually do think about it almost each day

3. I hate being Idle. I start getting irritable and feeling sick.

4. I don't socialise very much. I attend only about 1% of events I'm invited to. Dressing up for a social event is such a big thing for me...I'm trying to get out of it though.

5. Most of my male friends are queer and I love it like that...bite me! lol

6. When am telling alie I normally find my self laughing

7. I totally disapprove of women sleeping with married men. I think it's too too wrong.

10 THINGS I CAN' T IMAGINE....

Read thru Linda's blog and really liked the 10 things she couldn't imagine, so I gave it athought too and here are the top 10 Things I can't imagine

I can't imagine...
1. 24/7 power supply in Uganda.
Someone told me this will happen some day in Uganda...I'm a believer...but I just can't imagine it. Can anyone who is living in Ugnda actually imagine uniterrupted power supply?...like, there's constant power every single minute of the day, every day of the week? If you can imagine it, then it means my mind ain't working right 'cos I can't.

I can't imagine...
2. Doing without God
All through my few years I have lived on this planet, I have always put all my trust in God, to me he is the air that I breath, I lean on him, basically I rely on him and that means without him am dead so without God am totally useless...

I can't imagine...
3. Being depressed again.
A few years ago, the smallest thing would depress me. If I lost a client, money, or my business or love life wasn't going well, I would just fall into deep sadness, feeling like such a failure. But I've totally grown above that. Now, no matter how bad I have it, I am too too grateful for the gift of life and for everything I have and don't even have. If you have that kind of mindset, nothing will bring you down.

I can't imagine...
4. Sleeping with a married man
I told a friend once that I can never sleep with a married man and she said never say never. I might find myself in a situation where I have no choice. Well, first and foremost, we will always have choices. Secondly, when I had it so bad many years ago, when I was much younger and in the university, when I went for weeks without a dime in my pocket and days without food in my stomach, I never turned to these men. I can't imagine doing it now that I have enough money to take care of me...
I'm no miss goody two shoes, I have my off sides, but I'm too against the married man thingy. I'd rather sleep with 10 single guys in one night than one married man...that's how bad it is...lol!

I can't imagine...
5. Never having sex.
A friend told me sometime ago that she's never going to have sex again and I was alarmed. Never ever..? Like for real? I can't imagine never having sex. I mean I can imagine going without it for a long time, but never ever? forever ever?...ever ever? No man will go down there and wipe clean dem things? ...wink! !

I can't imagine...
6. Imagine my dad and mum ever having sex... though they are long gone
LOL! But they sure did...many many times. 'Cos they had us (Me and my other siblings). That must have been a lot of sex...just can't picture it.

I can't imagine...
7. Not having my own business by the time am 40.
I told a friend that I'm going to have a business by the time I'm 40. Am looking forward to doing this and very soon... by the way something is cooking and howeverthinks am not fit for business am about to prove you wrong just watch this space.
Like I always say, If you believe it, you can do it. And if you must dream, dream big, so am dreaming big...

I can't imagine...
8. Getting married
I pray to marry only once in my life and I can't imagine me as the bride, u know I normally feel achill run thru my veins whenever I think of marriage. being a Mrs so and so... quite frightening but I have to get married and am also praying that I do get married some day but I just can't imagine that me Brenda married.... I don't know how many people feel this way.

I can't imagine...
9. Never blogging.
I've been trying to imagine what will make me stop blogging...can't think of anything. I can take long breaks, but never blogging? My blogging will only stop when blogging doesn't exist anymore. What if my husband wants me to stop blogging? Hopefully he won't

I can't imagine...
10.Some people like Robert Mugabe, Kony, Osama Bin Laden... the list is endless of all those hard nuts who in way or the other terrorise the world ever being babies... they must have been hard babies who wre notorious even while in the womb!

THE LUCK FACTOR.

Saw this article on one of my favourite blogs, stole it and decided that it would be nice to post here and share with my fellow positive people. The article talks about luck, and ways to improve your luck. From the book, The Luck Factor, author Dr. Richard Wiseman argues that Luck is not a matter of chance, and luck can be strengthened by paying attention to your luck network.

Excerpt From the article

“To build up your network of luck, strike up conversations at work or socially with at least one person you do not know very well. Do this once a week. Break the ice by asking for information.
“Once a week, get in touch with someone you have not spoken to for a while and find out what is happening in their life”.

Be open to new experiences by playing the dice game. Make a list of six things you want to do-everything from learning French to going hang-gliding or taking dancing lessons-and number them from one to six. Roll a dice and whatever number comes up is the experience you have to try.

Obviously, though, you cannot rely completely on fate to make life choices. It is all very well to try the dice game when the stakes are truly equal, but when it comes to decisions with significant consequences like where you work, who you socialize with or how to handle a crisis-you need to rely on your common sense and moral upbringing.

Other steps include:
Listening to your lucky hunches
- Reflect on how you feel about a decision you have made, not just what you think about it.
- Make a decision and write it down
Expect to have good fortune
- Lucky people expect events to go well in different areas
- Visualize being successful imagine your exam going well.
Turn your bad luck into good luck.
- Lucky people are resilient and better at coping with misfortune when it does come their way. - They ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT side.






GOOD LUCK with STRENGTHENING UR LUCK!!!

Hey there!

Well, well, well,.... been off blogville for some time simply because am soooooo tied up but sooner will update this blog. I really have alot to write about but how to start is the problem, now am carefully thinking of away in which I will have to empty all the thoughts I have for this blog and place them at the right place.
Guess you folks are doing well and am sorry for not being present here.
cheers

Warren Buffet
There was a one hour interview on CNBC with Warren Buffet, the richest man on this planet who has donated $31 billion to charity.


Here are some very interesting aspects of his life:
1. He bought his first share of stock at age 11 and he now regrets that he started too late!
2. He bought a small farm at age 14 with savings from delivering newspapers.
3. He still lives in the same, small 3-bedroom house in midtown Omaha that he bought after he got married 50 years ago. He says that he has everything he needs in that house. His house does not have a wall or a fence.
4. He drives his own car everywhere and does not have a driver or security people around him. 5. He never travels by private jet, although he owns the world's largest private jet company.
6. His company, Berkshire Hathaway, owns 63 companies.
He writes only one letter each year to the CEO's of these companies, giving them goals for the year. He never holds meetings or calls them on a regular basis. He has given his CEO's only two rules.
Rule number 1: Do not lose any of your shareholder's money.
Rule number 2: Do not forget rule number 1.
7. He does not socialize with the high society crowd. His pastime after he gets home is to make himself some popcorn and watch television.
8. Bill Gates, the world's richest man, met him for the first time only 5 years ago. Bill Gates did not think he had anything in common with Warren Buffet. So, he had scheduled his meeting only for half hour. But when Gates met him, the meeting lasted for ten hours and Bill Gates became a devotee of Warren Buffet.
9. Warren Buffet does not carry a cell phone, nor has a computer on his desk.
His advice to young people: 'Stay away from credit cards and invest in yourself and remember ' :
A. Money doesn't create man, but it is the man who created money.
B. Live your life as simple as you are.
C. Don't do what others say. Just listen to them, but do what makes you feel good.
D. Don't go on brand name. Wear those things in which you feel comfortable.
E. Don't waste your money on unnecessary things. Spend on those who really are in need.
F. After all, it's your life. Why give others the chance to rule your life'
I find this so amazing, but am forced to wonder if I invested now, would I somehow be like him? but then I have not even bought asingle share, what could I be waiting for...?
From the above, I can say we all have the capacity to reach there and this is the right time am not wasting any more time, I need shares desparately and just watch this space am gonna be an investor and no jokes!
till then and stay blessed...