Hi every body out there, been long since I last blogged. Did I miss my blog? ofcourse i did and am glad I have been able to find some time to blog about something that has been on my mind for aperiod of time.On my way to work I often pass by some adverts on poles (let me say flyers),on street walls and even in places I dont expect them to be.It seems there is a craziness of Ugandans wanting to practice everything that happens on this globe what I mean is, these adverts talks of breast firming and enlargement- this I understand but tell me what about the manhood enlargement adverts? I normally ask my self and even imagine how this will be done. Will the victims be given an oral drug say viagra and i hope the manhood that is being talked of here is the actual one or is there something else and am kind of lost? Recently I saw another one talking about how to find your loved one and if I may ask, is it that easy to find your better half and in case you met the person, would anyone straight away fall in love? I find this all crazy. Well I dont know what you people out there think. I find the manhood enlargement thing so impossible and if its really possible how is it done? I need some clarification on this.
Breast firming and enlargement yes, i have heard of it but in Uganda am doubtful.By the way,is this done by medical proffesionals or is it done traditionally? And thinking twice, is this legalised in the country and which hospitals if any do practice this and if they do it then they would better advertise as a recognised hospital providing the service. Otherwise am forced to believe these guys making these adverts are conmen, just the standard of their adverts is too poor for one to believe they can provide the service, I think anyone who is being convinced by these adverts should think twice and be thoroughly sure of the service that they provide.
take care
lots of love.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
its a friday!!
Hullo every one, hope you guys doing great am fine though stressed with alot of pressure from books am actually doing my finals and am too excited...can't wait for the day i will be doing my last paper.
Its a friday and actually friday comes in every week so why am i excited?? Anyways,since the weekend is approaching am happy no work plus its stress just gonna relax and please dont mention books.
So, the weekend is here and all am going to do is sleep day in day out. Am reading Yunus Mohammad's Banker to the poor and its so captivating, am even encouraged to do something.
for now I beg to stop here... have alovely weekend
kisses....
Its a friday and actually friday comes in every week so why am i excited?? Anyways,since the weekend is approaching am happy no work plus its stress just gonna relax and please dont mention books.
So, the weekend is here and all am going to do is sleep day in day out. Am reading Yunus Mohammad's Banker to the poor and its so captivating, am even encouraged to do something.
for now I beg to stop here... have alovely weekend
kisses....
Friday, July 4, 2008
what is work?
“Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing.”-Thomas Alva Edison
Work is the horizontal flow of value from a supplier to a consumer! From this little definition of work, we can deduce that in order for what you are doing to be called work, there needs to be a transfer of value from you to someone else. Kindly note also that whether or not it’s for profit or for cash is omitted. This is because work does not become work only when it is rewarded, work is work as long as value is transfered. Like I usually say, experience is experience because you did it, not because you were paid for it. In the light of this definition, are you working? Who are you really working for? What value are you supplying? Look critically at the “work” you do, and be brutally honest with yourself, are you working?
Work is as old as man! To work or not to work is not an option, the dilligent person works, and the lazy one is given to forced labour. There is no option to work, there is only an option to who chooses the work for you -yourself or circumstances. There is an alternative to hard work though, it’s hard life!
I personally marvel when I see able bodied graduates boldly confessing to haven been jobless for years! Many are actively unemployed, actively doing what? Actively searching for jobs? By the definition of work, a good number of employed people are not working, but that doesn’t distress me half as much as the thousands of graduates we have on the streets unemployed by the big companies, and sadly unemployed by themselves. Tell me, if you can’t employ yourself, why should anybody else employ you? I think it’s time we tell ourselves the truth, pick ourselves up and apply ourselves. If they don’t give you work, give yourself. Work is the horizontal flow of value from a supplier to a consumer. Think about it, what value can you add, and how can you make that addition your work?
If you desire to work, don’t wait till someone calls you from the interviews you have done? Don’t place your life in the hands of “if it happens?”. More often than not, the people that get offered great work are people that already have experience in one form or the other adding that type of value. Look inwards and discover the work that you can start today, and if you truely want to work, here are some guidelines to get you started.
1. What you do today is what will be called experience tomorrow. Someone once said that good judgement comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgement :). It is also said that experience is what you get just after you needed it. Don’t just sit at home and wait for the opportunity to come, get yourself busy. You can’t sit in the premises and claim to be standing on some promises. Start supplying or adding the kind of value you want to add.
“Don’t waste life in doubts and fears; spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour’s duties will be the best preparation for the hours and ages that will follow it.”-Ralph Waldo Emerson
2. There is no one shoe size that fits all. There is no “one way” that gets to the destination called success. You don’t have to have worked for a big company before you succeed in life. The world is full of examples of people who simply started. Who says it’s better to have corporate experience? Who says you must do, 5, 10, or 25yrs before you start your life’s work? There are no hard and fast rules. If you don’t have work today. Simply start something. Let the call to come and start work in a company be a welcome distraction if you like, but make up your mind that the work you will start to do will help you define standards of what to choose and what not to choose. Don’t just wait for the perfect time, move today. In the words of Pablo Picaso the talented artist, “Inspiration exists, but it must meet you working”. In other words, to be inspired, you need to get busy first.
“Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you’re willing to pay the price.”-Vince Lombardi
3. Grow deaf! Yeah, you read that right. Don’t go deaf, grow deaf… let it happen gradually:) You’ll hear all sorts of things, like “when will you go out and get a job?”, “I hope you don’t think you have found work?” and more. Don’t you worry, these are the normal chats of concerned fellows. They do it out of love, and no ill feelings, you on the other hand must expect it and be undeterred. At the end all the criticisms will turn to applauds. Stubborness has two sides you know, when stubborness has rewards it’s called perseverance and strong will, when it doesn’t it’s called stiffneckedness. Look for value to add and add it. If you do more than you are paid to do, you’ll soon get paid more than you do. Take yourself out of the crowd of timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat from not having tried.
“It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at the worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.”-Theodore Roosevelt
Work is the horizontal flow of value from a supplier to a consumer! From this little definition of work, we can deduce that in order for what you are doing to be called work, there needs to be a transfer of value from you to someone else. Kindly note also that whether or not it’s for profit or for cash is omitted. This is because work does not become work only when it is rewarded, work is work as long as value is transfered. Like I usually say, experience is experience because you did it, not because you were paid for it. In the light of this definition, are you working? Who are you really working for? What value are you supplying? Look critically at the “work” you do, and be brutally honest with yourself, are you working?
Work is as old as man! To work or not to work is not an option, the dilligent person works, and the lazy one is given to forced labour. There is no option to work, there is only an option to who chooses the work for you -yourself or circumstances. There is an alternative to hard work though, it’s hard life!
I personally marvel when I see able bodied graduates boldly confessing to haven been jobless for years! Many are actively unemployed, actively doing what? Actively searching for jobs? By the definition of work, a good number of employed people are not working, but that doesn’t distress me half as much as the thousands of graduates we have on the streets unemployed by the big companies, and sadly unemployed by themselves. Tell me, if you can’t employ yourself, why should anybody else employ you? I think it’s time we tell ourselves the truth, pick ourselves up and apply ourselves. If they don’t give you work, give yourself. Work is the horizontal flow of value from a supplier to a consumer. Think about it, what value can you add, and how can you make that addition your work?
If you desire to work, don’t wait till someone calls you from the interviews you have done? Don’t place your life in the hands of “if it happens?”. More often than not, the people that get offered great work are people that already have experience in one form or the other adding that type of value. Look inwards and discover the work that you can start today, and if you truely want to work, here are some guidelines to get you started.
1. What you do today is what will be called experience tomorrow. Someone once said that good judgement comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgement :). It is also said that experience is what you get just after you needed it. Don’t just sit at home and wait for the opportunity to come, get yourself busy. You can’t sit in the premises and claim to be standing on some promises. Start supplying or adding the kind of value you want to add.
“Don’t waste life in doubts and fears; spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour’s duties will be the best preparation for the hours and ages that will follow it.”-Ralph Waldo Emerson
2. There is no one shoe size that fits all. There is no “one way” that gets to the destination called success. You don’t have to have worked for a big company before you succeed in life. The world is full of examples of people who simply started. Who says it’s better to have corporate experience? Who says you must do, 5, 10, or 25yrs before you start your life’s work? There are no hard and fast rules. If you don’t have work today. Simply start something. Let the call to come and start work in a company be a welcome distraction if you like, but make up your mind that the work you will start to do will help you define standards of what to choose and what not to choose. Don’t just wait for the perfect time, move today. In the words of Pablo Picaso the talented artist, “Inspiration exists, but it must meet you working”. In other words, to be inspired, you need to get busy first.
“Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you’re willing to pay the price.”-Vince Lombardi
3. Grow deaf! Yeah, you read that right. Don’t go deaf, grow deaf… let it happen gradually:) You’ll hear all sorts of things, like “when will you go out and get a job?”, “I hope you don’t think you have found work?” and more. Don’t you worry, these are the normal chats of concerned fellows. They do it out of love, and no ill feelings, you on the other hand must expect it and be undeterred. At the end all the criticisms will turn to applauds. Stubborness has two sides you know, when stubborness has rewards it’s called perseverance and strong will, when it doesn’t it’s called stiffneckedness. Look for value to add and add it. If you do more than you are paid to do, you’ll soon get paid more than you do. Take yourself out of the crowd of timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat from not having tried.
“It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again, who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, and spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows achievement and who at the worst if he fails at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.”-Theodore Roosevelt
Monday, June 16, 2008
HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!
Hi dears, this week has been a blessed one with a fathers day there in and I just realised that in Africa we are waking up to recognition that fathers need to appreciated too.Imagine I didn't know it not till I heard over the Radio that it was fathers day...I somehow felt guilty you know,for not congratulating my uncles on the paternal side (As in Africa all your fathers brothers are in away your fathers).But as we are still in the fathers week, allow me say Happy fathers day to all my dads these includes my spiritual dad( my pastor) and all my dear uncles,you watched me grow up and are stilL doing so... Thanks.
We all love our fathers but one thing troubles me, there are some dads who end up behaving like beasts, am writing about those that are merciless, who rape their daughters and am told some even deliberatly sale their daughters off to men they dont love just to get rich.Could it be that they were not meant to be fathers but just found themselves as fathers?
Am not amused by such acts but does anyone know why someone would do to his own daughter? I magine his own blood and flesh? Could there be some element of a beast in such a person? If there is anyone out there who could be knowing why some people behave or are forced to act this way, please let me know.Am puzzled alot because I just can't imagine it.
None the less, there are fathers who have always been there for their children especially the daughters, such are fathers whose flames will forever keep burning, forever will they be in the momories of their daughters and to them, I only ask the almighty to keep you going strong and bless you abundantly.Thank you daddies and salute to you all!
We all love our fathers but one thing troubles me, there are some dads who end up behaving like beasts, am writing about those that are merciless, who rape their daughters and am told some even deliberatly sale their daughters off to men they dont love just to get rich.Could it be that they were not meant to be fathers but just found themselves as fathers?
Am not amused by such acts but does anyone know why someone would do to his own daughter? I magine his own blood and flesh? Could there be some element of a beast in such a person? If there is anyone out there who could be knowing why some people behave or are forced to act this way, please let me know.Am puzzled alot because I just can't imagine it.
None the less, there are fathers who have always been there for their children especially the daughters, such are fathers whose flames will forever keep burning, forever will they be in the momories of their daughters and to them, I only ask the almighty to keep you going strong and bless you abundantly.Thank you daddies and salute to you all!
SIX MORE MONTHS TO THE END OF THE YEAR...
Hi, its long since I last bloged and alot has happened, all this while I have been reading other blogs and believe me in away I have been inspired.I have discovered that there is alot to learn from every one and to all my favourite blogers, thank you! There are those days when you feel the you dont belong to the world and are in your own world seemingly lost but when I read through all those blogs I was brought back to reality and consented that i wasn't lost afterall.
One of my favourite bloger, Bishop TD jakes was apparently ill somehow and is just recovering from a surgery, am very glad Bishop you are recovering and all praise goes back to God. I miss postings on your blog but I believe you will soon get back to your feet and set the ball rolling once more.People Bishop's blog is a must read not only is there inspiration, there is aspecial way he brings out what he writes and if you have not been reading it you missing please check it out on www.tdjakes.com.
Looking through the year, we are already half way down the road and many people made resolutions personally I didnt but I wonder how far they have gone.I have so far had some good achievements, am glad about it and am still pushing on. This has made me realise that at times resolutions don't really work as long as am focused I believe I can do even more.
As you can tell from the above am all blah blah....ring so may be am short of words and I should better exit.otherwise you people take care and know that will soon get to my feet and invade blogville seriously.
Cheers...God bless you all
One of my favourite bloger, Bishop TD jakes was apparently ill somehow and is just recovering from a surgery, am very glad Bishop you are recovering and all praise goes back to God. I miss postings on your blog but I believe you will soon get back to your feet and set the ball rolling once more.People Bishop's blog is a must read not only is there inspiration, there is aspecial way he brings out what he writes and if you have not been reading it you missing please check it out on www.tdjakes.com.
Looking through the year, we are already half way down the road and many people made resolutions personally I didnt but I wonder how far they have gone.I have so far had some good achievements, am glad about it and am still pushing on. This has made me realise that at times resolutions don't really work as long as am focused I believe I can do even more.
As you can tell from the above am all blah blah....ring so may be am short of words and I should better exit.otherwise you people take care and know that will soon get to my feet and invade blogville seriously.
Cheers...God bless you all
Monday, May 12, 2008
WOMEN... WHO WE TRUELY ARE
There so many fascinating things about women, I have read and even heard of so many stories about women that at times i have to admit that women are complex beings but then all humans to me are complex and when it comes to relationships, both sexes will say they don't understand each other and no one is to blame after all we are all unique. here are some facts about women so guys watch out...
“A man who is strong spiritually, sure of his purpose, and actively working towards the fulfillment of his destiny is the sexiest man on earth to a woman”.
• Because women view men as knights in shining armor, women expect men to know some things we do not know. The savvy man, who is well rounded, with knowledge on various subjects, is exciting to a woman. Therefore be well read, if not experienced.
• A woman who is fruitful in her endeavors and successful in her business is an asset to a man. Be secure enough to celebrate her accomplishments because you will also reap from them as her partner.
• Check the temperament of the woman to whom you are attracted. Is it all about her, or does she care about other people? This is a major sign of how your life together will play out.
• A woman looks to a man for stability. Inconsistency is frightening to her and causes her to question your intentions towards her.
• Women were created for relationship. Their hearts settle this area quickly when they feel they have met the right man. Be clear in your intentions so that there is no confusion on the status of your relationship.
• God created the woman to be a helper to a man. The woman in your life should make you a better man.
• A woman is a complex being. Take the time necessary to allow the layers of her to unfold before drawing conclusions.
• Women are disappointed when men who claim to have a relationship with God compromise their stand on purity.
• EVERY woman wants a man to woo her, pursue her, and win her hand. It speaks volumes about her value in his eyes.
Michelle McKinney Hammond in her book “Finding the Right Woman For You” has this to say about a woman
• A woman can make or break a man, therefore, not just any woman will do! Make sure she adds to your life and does not subtract from your quality of living.
• The enemy will use a woman to distract you from your purpose and rob you of your destiny. Check yourself and your productivity when involved with the woman in your life.
• If a woman begins leading you in the relationship, she will never stop. The way to earn her respect is to take the lead and keep it.
• Be clear on who you are and what your purpose is. Stick to your program unless God says differently. The woman for you will be a team player and know you are her assignment, and vice versa.
• A woman will follow where you lead her. Plan your steps carefully.
• Women are looking not only for husbands; they are also looking for fathers for their children. Do not become a lover until you are a husband.
• Do not settle for an okay relationship just to pass the time away. When a woman gives herself to you-heart, mind and body, she expects a commitment from you. She will feel betrayed if she finds out you led her on.
• The woman who will add blessing to your life will not deliberately lure you down the path of sexual sin.
• A woman will trust and respect you more if you take the lead in maintaining purity in your relationship with her.
• Women are attracted to men who have a sense of self and direction for their lives.
Need i say more ?...I don't think so.You have read it for your selves and no more excuses.
Thats all for now ...CIAO!
“A man who is strong spiritually, sure of his purpose, and actively working towards the fulfillment of his destiny is the sexiest man on earth to a woman”.
• Because women view men as knights in shining armor, women expect men to know some things we do not know. The savvy man, who is well rounded, with knowledge on various subjects, is exciting to a woman. Therefore be well read, if not experienced.
• A woman who is fruitful in her endeavors and successful in her business is an asset to a man. Be secure enough to celebrate her accomplishments because you will also reap from them as her partner.
• Check the temperament of the woman to whom you are attracted. Is it all about her, or does she care about other people? This is a major sign of how your life together will play out.
• A woman looks to a man for stability. Inconsistency is frightening to her and causes her to question your intentions towards her.
• Women were created for relationship. Their hearts settle this area quickly when they feel they have met the right man. Be clear in your intentions so that there is no confusion on the status of your relationship.
• God created the woman to be a helper to a man. The woman in your life should make you a better man.
• A woman is a complex being. Take the time necessary to allow the layers of her to unfold before drawing conclusions.
• Women are disappointed when men who claim to have a relationship with God compromise their stand on purity.
• EVERY woman wants a man to woo her, pursue her, and win her hand. It speaks volumes about her value in his eyes.
Michelle McKinney Hammond in her book “Finding the Right Woman For You” has this to say about a woman
• A woman can make or break a man, therefore, not just any woman will do! Make sure she adds to your life and does not subtract from your quality of living.
• The enemy will use a woman to distract you from your purpose and rob you of your destiny. Check yourself and your productivity when involved with the woman in your life.
• If a woman begins leading you in the relationship, she will never stop. The way to earn her respect is to take the lead and keep it.
• Be clear on who you are and what your purpose is. Stick to your program unless God says differently. The woman for you will be a team player and know you are her assignment, and vice versa.
• A woman will follow where you lead her. Plan your steps carefully.
• Women are looking not only for husbands; they are also looking for fathers for their children. Do not become a lover until you are a husband.
• Do not settle for an okay relationship just to pass the time away. When a woman gives herself to you-heart, mind and body, she expects a commitment from you. She will feel betrayed if she finds out you led her on.
• The woman who will add blessing to your life will not deliberately lure you down the path of sexual sin.
• A woman will trust and respect you more if you take the lead in maintaining purity in your relationship with her.
• Women are attracted to men who have a sense of self and direction for their lives.
Need i say more ?...I don't think so.You have read it for your selves and no more excuses.
Thats all for now ...CIAO!
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
EVIL BENEATH OUR FEET
Got this sad but rather interesting story from Victoria's blog. Most of you must have read or heard about it,I normally ask my self what the world is getting to, now with all this happening what more should we expect?
The whole story is so annoying, disgusting and I don't wish death for anyone but am forced to wish so for for this HEARTLESS man. Truely, why would anyone do this to his daughter? I hope something serious will be done to him.
Not all of us can think of the evil that lies beneath our feet. Imagine being imprisoned
For 24years in a Dungeon beneath your house with your mother upstairs living a life of misery that she has lost her daughter and your father knowing fully well you live in the dungeon beneath the floors of the house.
Such is the story of Elizabeth Fritzl who lived in the Dungeon in Austria with three of her children aged 18, 19 and five, none of whom had ever seen sunlight or been to school.
This horror only ended when her 19yrs old daughter Kerstin was admitted to hospital after falling seriously ill that her Evil Dad or oh sorry!!! Granddad had no option but to take her to hospital and the letter about the horror she lived with was found in her pocket by the medical staff and the police were then called.
Upon investigation the Elizabeth and her two other kids were found in the Dungeon. Her father was promptly arrested and is currently in jail.
Elizabeth disappeared in 1984. Her father Josef Fritzl reportedly claimed she had gone into hiding and the foolish police of cause concluded she had joined a religious sect and decided not to look for her. Thus began her journey of pain and horror in the hands of her father for 24yrs.
She gave birth to seven children but one died on the third day and was supposedly burned by Mr Fritzl. Three of the children lived with their grand parents and went to school but the births of others were never registered. He managed to keep his daughter’s imprisonment from his wife.
Thank God for the letter Elizabeth wrote and left in her daughter’s pocket before she was taken to the hospital no one would have known this evil happened until maybe after Mr Fritzl death.
I personally feel this man needs to die for the horror he leashed on his daughter, he started raping her at age 11yrs then imprisoned her and forced his daughter to have 7kids for him??? Can you imagine that shit?
Now tell me what is he to the kids? A dad? A Granddad? Or EVIL.
Just as i mentioned above, he deserves to die or what do you think?
For pictures on this horror story, the dungeon a father forced his child to live for 24yrs and where he had sex and raped her countless times thus resulting to her having seven children of INCEST for him visit the below link..
http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30200-1314210,00.html?CMP=KNC-World&HBX_PK=2009_04_28_Daughter_in_Cellar&HBX_OU=50
till then.
The whole story is so annoying, disgusting and I don't wish death for anyone but am forced to wish so for for this HEARTLESS man. Truely, why would anyone do this to his daughter? I hope something serious will be done to him.
Not all of us can think of the evil that lies beneath our feet. Imagine being imprisoned
For 24years in a Dungeon beneath your house with your mother upstairs living a life of misery that she has lost her daughter and your father knowing fully well you live in the dungeon beneath the floors of the house.
Such is the story of Elizabeth Fritzl who lived in the Dungeon in Austria with three of her children aged 18, 19 and five, none of whom had ever seen sunlight or been to school.
This horror only ended when her 19yrs old daughter Kerstin was admitted to hospital after falling seriously ill that her Evil Dad or oh sorry!!! Granddad had no option but to take her to hospital and the letter about the horror she lived with was found in her pocket by the medical staff and the police were then called.
Upon investigation the Elizabeth and her two other kids were found in the Dungeon. Her father was promptly arrested and is currently in jail.
Elizabeth disappeared in 1984. Her father Josef Fritzl reportedly claimed she had gone into hiding and the foolish police of cause concluded she had joined a religious sect and decided not to look for her. Thus began her journey of pain and horror in the hands of her father for 24yrs.
She gave birth to seven children but one died on the third day and was supposedly burned by Mr Fritzl. Three of the children lived with their grand parents and went to school but the births of others were never registered. He managed to keep his daughter’s imprisonment from his wife.
Thank God for the letter Elizabeth wrote and left in her daughter’s pocket before she was taken to the hospital no one would have known this evil happened until maybe after Mr Fritzl death.
I personally feel this man needs to die for the horror he leashed on his daughter, he started raping her at age 11yrs then imprisoned her and forced his daughter to have 7kids for him??? Can you imagine that shit?
Now tell me what is he to the kids? A dad? A Granddad? Or EVIL.
Just as i mentioned above, he deserves to die or what do you think?
For pictures on this horror story, the dungeon a father forced his child to live for 24yrs and where he had sex and raped her countless times thus resulting to her having seven children of INCEST for him visit the below link..
http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30200-1314210,00.html?CMP=KNC-World&HBX_PK=2009_04_28_Daughter_in_Cellar&HBX_OU=50
till then.
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