Hi dears, this week has been a blessed one with a fathers day there in and I just realised that in Africa we are waking up to recognition that fathers need to appreciated too.Imagine I didn't know it not till I heard over the Radio that it was fathers day...I somehow felt guilty you know,for not congratulating my uncles on the paternal side (As in Africa all your fathers brothers are in away your fathers).But as we are still in the fathers week, allow me say Happy fathers day to all my dads these includes my spiritual dad( my pastor) and all my dear uncles,you watched me grow up and are stilL doing so... Thanks.
We all love our fathers but one thing troubles me, there are some dads who end up behaving like beasts, am writing about those that are merciless, who rape their daughters and am told some even deliberatly sale their daughters off to men they dont love just to get rich.Could it be that they were not meant to be fathers but just found themselves as fathers?
Am not amused by such acts but does anyone know why someone would do to his own daughter? I magine his own blood and flesh? Could there be some element of a beast in such a person? If there is anyone out there who could be knowing why some people behave or are forced to act this way, please let me know.Am puzzled alot because I just can't imagine it.
None the less, there are fathers who have always been there for their children especially the daughters, such are fathers whose flames will forever keep burning, forever will they be in the momories of their daughters and to them, I only ask the almighty to keep you going strong and bless you abundantly.Thank you daddies and salute to you all!
Monday, June 16, 2008
SIX MORE MONTHS TO THE END OF THE YEAR...
Hi, its long since I last bloged and alot has happened, all this while I have been reading other blogs and believe me in away I have been inspired.I have discovered that there is alot to learn from every one and to all my favourite blogers, thank you! There are those days when you feel the you dont belong to the world and are in your own world seemingly lost but when I read through all those blogs I was brought back to reality and consented that i wasn't lost afterall.
One of my favourite bloger, Bishop TD jakes was apparently ill somehow and is just recovering from a surgery, am very glad Bishop you are recovering and all praise goes back to God. I miss postings on your blog but I believe you will soon get back to your feet and set the ball rolling once more.People Bishop's blog is a must read not only is there inspiration, there is aspecial way he brings out what he writes and if you have not been reading it you missing please check it out on www.tdjakes.com.
Looking through the year, we are already half way down the road and many people made resolutions personally I didnt but I wonder how far they have gone.I have so far had some good achievements, am glad about it and am still pushing on. This has made me realise that at times resolutions don't really work as long as am focused I believe I can do even more.
As you can tell from the above am all blah blah....ring so may be am short of words and I should better exit.otherwise you people take care and know that will soon get to my feet and invade blogville seriously.
Cheers...God bless you all
One of my favourite bloger, Bishop TD jakes was apparently ill somehow and is just recovering from a surgery, am very glad Bishop you are recovering and all praise goes back to God. I miss postings on your blog but I believe you will soon get back to your feet and set the ball rolling once more.People Bishop's blog is a must read not only is there inspiration, there is aspecial way he brings out what he writes and if you have not been reading it you missing please check it out on www.tdjakes.com.
Looking through the year, we are already half way down the road and many people made resolutions personally I didnt but I wonder how far they have gone.I have so far had some good achievements, am glad about it and am still pushing on. This has made me realise that at times resolutions don't really work as long as am focused I believe I can do even more.
As you can tell from the above am all blah blah....ring so may be am short of words and I should better exit.otherwise you people take care and know that will soon get to my feet and invade blogville seriously.
Cheers...God bless you all
Monday, May 12, 2008
WOMEN... WHO WE TRUELY ARE
There so many fascinating things about women, I have read and even heard of so many stories about women that at times i have to admit that women are complex beings but then all humans to me are complex and when it comes to relationships, both sexes will say they don't understand each other and no one is to blame after all we are all unique. here are some facts about women so guys watch out...
“A man who is strong spiritually, sure of his purpose, and actively working towards the fulfillment of his destiny is the sexiest man on earth to a woman”.
• Because women view men as knights in shining armor, women expect men to know some things we do not know. The savvy man, who is well rounded, with knowledge on various subjects, is exciting to a woman. Therefore be well read, if not experienced.
• A woman who is fruitful in her endeavors and successful in her business is an asset to a man. Be secure enough to celebrate her accomplishments because you will also reap from them as her partner.
• Check the temperament of the woman to whom you are attracted. Is it all about her, or does she care about other people? This is a major sign of how your life together will play out.
• A woman looks to a man for stability. Inconsistency is frightening to her and causes her to question your intentions towards her.
• Women were created for relationship. Their hearts settle this area quickly when they feel they have met the right man. Be clear in your intentions so that there is no confusion on the status of your relationship.
• God created the woman to be a helper to a man. The woman in your life should make you a better man.
• A woman is a complex being. Take the time necessary to allow the layers of her to unfold before drawing conclusions.
• Women are disappointed when men who claim to have a relationship with God compromise their stand on purity.
• EVERY woman wants a man to woo her, pursue her, and win her hand. It speaks volumes about her value in his eyes.
Michelle McKinney Hammond in her book “Finding the Right Woman For You” has this to say about a woman
• A woman can make or break a man, therefore, not just any woman will do! Make sure she adds to your life and does not subtract from your quality of living.
• The enemy will use a woman to distract you from your purpose and rob you of your destiny. Check yourself and your productivity when involved with the woman in your life.
• If a woman begins leading you in the relationship, she will never stop. The way to earn her respect is to take the lead and keep it.
• Be clear on who you are and what your purpose is. Stick to your program unless God says differently. The woman for you will be a team player and know you are her assignment, and vice versa.
• A woman will follow where you lead her. Plan your steps carefully.
• Women are looking not only for husbands; they are also looking for fathers for their children. Do not become a lover until you are a husband.
• Do not settle for an okay relationship just to pass the time away. When a woman gives herself to you-heart, mind and body, she expects a commitment from you. She will feel betrayed if she finds out you led her on.
• The woman who will add blessing to your life will not deliberately lure you down the path of sexual sin.
• A woman will trust and respect you more if you take the lead in maintaining purity in your relationship with her.
• Women are attracted to men who have a sense of self and direction for their lives.
Need i say more ?...I don't think so.You have read it for your selves and no more excuses.
Thats all for now ...CIAO!
“A man who is strong spiritually, sure of his purpose, and actively working towards the fulfillment of his destiny is the sexiest man on earth to a woman”.
• Because women view men as knights in shining armor, women expect men to know some things we do not know. The savvy man, who is well rounded, with knowledge on various subjects, is exciting to a woman. Therefore be well read, if not experienced.
• A woman who is fruitful in her endeavors and successful in her business is an asset to a man. Be secure enough to celebrate her accomplishments because you will also reap from them as her partner.
• Check the temperament of the woman to whom you are attracted. Is it all about her, or does she care about other people? This is a major sign of how your life together will play out.
• A woman looks to a man for stability. Inconsistency is frightening to her and causes her to question your intentions towards her.
• Women were created for relationship. Their hearts settle this area quickly when they feel they have met the right man. Be clear in your intentions so that there is no confusion on the status of your relationship.
• God created the woman to be a helper to a man. The woman in your life should make you a better man.
• A woman is a complex being. Take the time necessary to allow the layers of her to unfold before drawing conclusions.
• Women are disappointed when men who claim to have a relationship with God compromise their stand on purity.
• EVERY woman wants a man to woo her, pursue her, and win her hand. It speaks volumes about her value in his eyes.
Michelle McKinney Hammond in her book “Finding the Right Woman For You” has this to say about a woman
• A woman can make or break a man, therefore, not just any woman will do! Make sure she adds to your life and does not subtract from your quality of living.
• The enemy will use a woman to distract you from your purpose and rob you of your destiny. Check yourself and your productivity when involved with the woman in your life.
• If a woman begins leading you in the relationship, she will never stop. The way to earn her respect is to take the lead and keep it.
• Be clear on who you are and what your purpose is. Stick to your program unless God says differently. The woman for you will be a team player and know you are her assignment, and vice versa.
• A woman will follow where you lead her. Plan your steps carefully.
• Women are looking not only for husbands; they are also looking for fathers for their children. Do not become a lover until you are a husband.
• Do not settle for an okay relationship just to pass the time away. When a woman gives herself to you-heart, mind and body, she expects a commitment from you. She will feel betrayed if she finds out you led her on.
• The woman who will add blessing to your life will not deliberately lure you down the path of sexual sin.
• A woman will trust and respect you more if you take the lead in maintaining purity in your relationship with her.
• Women are attracted to men who have a sense of self and direction for their lives.
Need i say more ?...I don't think so.You have read it for your selves and no more excuses.
Thats all for now ...CIAO!
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
EVIL BENEATH OUR FEET
Got this sad but rather interesting story from Victoria's blog. Most of you must have read or heard about it,I normally ask my self what the world is getting to, now with all this happening what more should we expect?
The whole story is so annoying, disgusting and I don't wish death for anyone but am forced to wish so for for this HEARTLESS man. Truely, why would anyone do this to his daughter? I hope something serious will be done to him.
Not all of us can think of the evil that lies beneath our feet. Imagine being imprisoned
For 24years in a Dungeon beneath your house with your mother upstairs living a life of misery that she has lost her daughter and your father knowing fully well you live in the dungeon beneath the floors of the house.
Such is the story of Elizabeth Fritzl who lived in the Dungeon in Austria with three of her children aged 18, 19 and five, none of whom had ever seen sunlight or been to school.
This horror only ended when her 19yrs old daughter Kerstin was admitted to hospital after falling seriously ill that her Evil Dad or oh sorry!!! Granddad had no option but to take her to hospital and the letter about the horror she lived with was found in her pocket by the medical staff and the police were then called.
Upon investigation the Elizabeth and her two other kids were found in the Dungeon. Her father was promptly arrested and is currently in jail.
Elizabeth disappeared in 1984. Her father Josef Fritzl reportedly claimed she had gone into hiding and the foolish police of cause concluded she had joined a religious sect and decided not to look for her. Thus began her journey of pain and horror in the hands of her father for 24yrs.
She gave birth to seven children but one died on the third day and was supposedly burned by Mr Fritzl. Three of the children lived with their grand parents and went to school but the births of others were never registered. He managed to keep his daughter’s imprisonment from his wife.
Thank God for the letter Elizabeth wrote and left in her daughter’s pocket before she was taken to the hospital no one would have known this evil happened until maybe after Mr Fritzl death.
I personally feel this man needs to die for the horror he leashed on his daughter, he started raping her at age 11yrs then imprisoned her and forced his daughter to have 7kids for him??? Can you imagine that shit?
Now tell me what is he to the kids? A dad? A Granddad? Or EVIL.
Just as i mentioned above, he deserves to die or what do you think?
For pictures on this horror story, the dungeon a father forced his child to live for 24yrs and where he had sex and raped her countless times thus resulting to her having seven children of INCEST for him visit the below link..
http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30200-1314210,00.html?CMP=KNC-World&HBX_PK=2009_04_28_Daughter_in_Cellar&HBX_OU=50
till then.
The whole story is so annoying, disgusting and I don't wish death for anyone but am forced to wish so for for this HEARTLESS man. Truely, why would anyone do this to his daughter? I hope something serious will be done to him.
Not all of us can think of the evil that lies beneath our feet. Imagine being imprisoned
For 24years in a Dungeon beneath your house with your mother upstairs living a life of misery that she has lost her daughter and your father knowing fully well you live in the dungeon beneath the floors of the house.
Such is the story of Elizabeth Fritzl who lived in the Dungeon in Austria with three of her children aged 18, 19 and five, none of whom had ever seen sunlight or been to school.
This horror only ended when her 19yrs old daughter Kerstin was admitted to hospital after falling seriously ill that her Evil Dad or oh sorry!!! Granddad had no option but to take her to hospital and the letter about the horror she lived with was found in her pocket by the medical staff and the police were then called.
Upon investigation the Elizabeth and her two other kids were found in the Dungeon. Her father was promptly arrested and is currently in jail.
Elizabeth disappeared in 1984. Her father Josef Fritzl reportedly claimed she had gone into hiding and the foolish police of cause concluded she had joined a religious sect and decided not to look for her. Thus began her journey of pain and horror in the hands of her father for 24yrs.
She gave birth to seven children but one died on the third day and was supposedly burned by Mr Fritzl. Three of the children lived with their grand parents and went to school but the births of others were never registered. He managed to keep his daughter’s imprisonment from his wife.
Thank God for the letter Elizabeth wrote and left in her daughter’s pocket before she was taken to the hospital no one would have known this evil happened until maybe after Mr Fritzl death.
I personally feel this man needs to die for the horror he leashed on his daughter, he started raping her at age 11yrs then imprisoned her and forced his daughter to have 7kids for him??? Can you imagine that shit?
Now tell me what is he to the kids? A dad? A Granddad? Or EVIL.
Just as i mentioned above, he deserves to die or what do you think?
For pictures on this horror story, the dungeon a father forced his child to live for 24yrs and where he had sex and raped her countless times thus resulting to her having seven children of INCEST for him visit the below link..
http://news.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,30200-1314210,00.html?CMP=KNC-World&HBX_PK=2009_04_28_Daughter_in_Cellar&HBX_OU=50
till then.
Thursday, April 24, 2008
WE NEED EACH OTHER
Hello there, last evening I bumped on to my old school mate and she had all grown, I couldn't even identify her but thank God she did recognise me, you know that exitement one gets when you meet an old school mate, we straight away looked for a restaurant, helped our selves to some juice and well talked about what we were both doing, asked about our fellow school mates as well... and brought up all the funny things that took place while at school.I must say this former school mate of mine was really anotorious girl back then at school and whenever there was agroup of students going for apunishment she wouldn't miss out and believe me I didn't want her for a friend, but last evening I discoverd that we as human beings needed each other.I found out why and these are the reasons;We need each other...In times of private pain,of fear and stress.
We need each other...to share our joys, our times of happiness;
We need each other...to hold on and be strong, and encourage when things are going wrong;
We need each other...to keep the faith and love,and remind each other of all the things we're dreaming of;We need each other... now and always.
We are now good friends, actually I didnt like her behaviour then.
The above also brings to my mind the stigma affecting the HIV positive people in our societies, normally such people are discriminated in all aspects which is wrong. I got to know of a young lady who contracted the dreaded disease when she was helping nurse her mother who sadly died after along illness and when I talked to her this was her story,
"when my father died,our relatives came and grabbed all our property, threw us out of our house and we were sent to the village, me and my three siblings couldn't go to school any more since our mother wasn't working, so we stayed at home and went to the garden where we planted some food that kept us going. One day our mom fell so ill that she couldn't walk any more, she normally got sick but this time it was too bad.I looked for help every where but all in vain thats when I heard the gossip that my mom had Aids.I asked her and she said she wasn't sure and then I learnt that Aids was also got through sharing sharp objects and we as a family had been sharing razor blades because we were there for each other and when our mother died, we were left helpless and another tragedy befell us, our last born died too"
To cut the story short and to emphasise what am trying write is that, unless we realize that we, as a people, are on the same team, it will be extremely difficult if not impossible to experience the joy of differences and the richness of diversity. Let us always keep in mind that we complement each other. We share the common lot of humanity. Though we may be different, our needs remain similar. All of us need to be loved, to be appreciated, and to be needed. Let us get together and celebrate one another. Let us reset our focus and experience the joy of differences.
I have also realised that Our differences should make us reach out to one another. They should bring us closer together in order to learn from and about each other. The ultimate joy would be experienced as soon as we realized that each of us is a piece of a puzzle and, that without each other, we would make an incomplete picture. The joy of differences will be experienced by our fellowship with one another.
Therefore,The only way we can see ourselves objectively is through the reflection of others. We can go off and sit in a cave and meditate for years, but we only really find out what happened in that cave when we come out and get involved with other people. So we need each other if we want to evolve.
Till then.
We need each other...to share our joys, our times of happiness;
We need each other...to hold on and be strong, and encourage when things are going wrong;
We need each other...to keep the faith and love,and remind each other of all the things we're dreaming of;We need each other... now and always.
We are now good friends, actually I didnt like her behaviour then.
The above also brings to my mind the stigma affecting the HIV positive people in our societies, normally such people are discriminated in all aspects which is wrong. I got to know of a young lady who contracted the dreaded disease when she was helping nurse her mother who sadly died after along illness and when I talked to her this was her story,
"when my father died,our relatives came and grabbed all our property, threw us out of our house and we were sent to the village, me and my three siblings couldn't go to school any more since our mother wasn't working, so we stayed at home and went to the garden where we planted some food that kept us going. One day our mom fell so ill that she couldn't walk any more, she normally got sick but this time it was too bad.I looked for help every where but all in vain thats when I heard the gossip that my mom had Aids.I asked her and she said she wasn't sure and then I learnt that Aids was also got through sharing sharp objects and we as a family had been sharing razor blades because we were there for each other and when our mother died, we were left helpless and another tragedy befell us, our last born died too"
To cut the story short and to emphasise what am trying write is that, unless we realize that we, as a people, are on the same team, it will be extremely difficult if not impossible to experience the joy of differences and the richness of diversity. Let us always keep in mind that we complement each other. We share the common lot of humanity. Though we may be different, our needs remain similar. All of us need to be loved, to be appreciated, and to be needed. Let us get together and celebrate one another. Let us reset our focus and experience the joy of differences.
I have also realised that Our differences should make us reach out to one another. They should bring us closer together in order to learn from and about each other. The ultimate joy would be experienced as soon as we realized that each of us is a piece of a puzzle and, that without each other, we would make an incomplete picture. The joy of differences will be experienced by our fellowship with one another.
Therefore,The only way we can see ourselves objectively is through the reflection of others. We can go off and sit in a cave and meditate for years, but we only really find out what happened in that cave when we come out and get involved with other people. So we need each other if we want to evolve.
Till then.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
FEELINGS
Hello,and straight to the point, I think every creature has got feelings as shown by the response given and that depends on the situation.
Our feelings are a natural response to our thoughts and intentions. We don’t really choose our feelings directly. Our feelings are a feedback mechanism. They indicate whether we’re moving into alignment with our true desires (positive feelings) or out of alignment (negative feelings).We feel good when we’re moving towards what we want, and we feel bad when we’re moving away from what we want. And that movement is more about thought and intention than it is.
Well, for the moment this is what I have learnt and still discovering more about feeling and will keep you updated.
Now thinking about accepting our selves rather self acceptance, do we really value our selves? Or do we compromise?I believe most people simply compromise. They don’t fully accept themselves as they are, but nor are they fully comitted to lifelong growth. I think that’s a lame solution though. Why not have both? Why not fully accept yourself as you are and also be totally committed to lifelong growth? Can’t you enjoy both? Is there a way around this apparent conflict?Why does there seem to be a conflict between self-acceptance and growth anyway? I think the conflict is actually a result of a particular mindset.
personally I would rather accept my self than compromise, I dont want to fight awar that is never ending... u know what I mean?
Anyways, this is enough for today wish you all the best and be good to ur selves.
Our feelings are a natural response to our thoughts and intentions. We don’t really choose our feelings directly. Our feelings are a feedback mechanism. They indicate whether we’re moving into alignment with our true desires (positive feelings) or out of alignment (negative feelings).We feel good when we’re moving towards what we want, and we feel bad when we’re moving away from what we want. And that movement is more about thought and intention than it is.
Well, for the moment this is what I have learnt and still discovering more about feeling and will keep you updated.
Now thinking about accepting our selves rather self acceptance, do we really value our selves? Or do we compromise?I believe most people simply compromise. They don’t fully accept themselves as they are, but nor are they fully comitted to lifelong growth. I think that’s a lame solution though. Why not have both? Why not fully accept yourself as you are and also be totally committed to lifelong growth? Can’t you enjoy both? Is there a way around this apparent conflict?Why does there seem to be a conflict between self-acceptance and growth anyway? I think the conflict is actually a result of a particular mindset.
personally I would rather accept my self than compromise, I dont want to fight awar that is never ending... u know what I mean?
Anyways, this is enough for today wish you all the best and be good to ur selves.
Monday, April 21, 2008
Treasures of life.
Hi there, came across this poem by Frank Armanno and how true are the words in it.
Often times we do not realise how beautiful life is and all we do is blame our selves for all that has happened or even blame our friends. I have learnt that no matter what happened or happens the things we do will always in away affect our lives either positively or negatively the same for the people we meet, all we need to do is live life at atime and just as the poem below says learn to appreciate life in its different challenging ways. I hope you will all learn something from this, do enjoy...
In my mind there's always aplace on earth where you find treasure.
it can be found in natural elements, gold, silver, & diamonds.
It can be treasures buried or lost by people who stole for pleasure,
A metal treasure hunter is always looking for the right sounds.
The act of searching in some way, is often froth with high pressure.
There are other kinds of treasures people find exciting & valuable,
they can be physical, mental, visual, spiritual &, imaginary.
The value is always relative to how individuals value unclassifiable,
for if the aim is money, a spiritual find would be contrary.
Big treasures are sometimes found in, a psychic mind predictable.
I discovered good new treasures because I followed with a heart,
it led me to a unique way of life that I would live over again.
Some childhood friends I had found I still treasure them all to start,
some have passed over but I'm still richer for knowing them.
And there's my wife for life & children, I thank them for their part
Never forget that life is full of unseen & unknown human soul strife,
make sure you go through life marking all heart felt meanings.
We never see value in human friends in a lifetime full of drum & fife,
but, a heart force of love in us all will start a souls dreamings.
Nothing is more rewarding when you remember, Treasures Of Life.
What more can I say...? Life is simply beautiful!!
Often times we do not realise how beautiful life is and all we do is blame our selves for all that has happened or even blame our friends. I have learnt that no matter what happened or happens the things we do will always in away affect our lives either positively or negatively the same for the people we meet, all we need to do is live life at atime and just as the poem below says learn to appreciate life in its different challenging ways. I hope you will all learn something from this, do enjoy...
In my mind there's always aplace on earth where you find treasure.
it can be found in natural elements, gold, silver, & diamonds.
It can be treasures buried or lost by people who stole for pleasure,
A metal treasure hunter is always looking for the right sounds.
The act of searching in some way, is often froth with high pressure.
There are other kinds of treasures people find exciting & valuable,
they can be physical, mental, visual, spiritual &, imaginary.
The value is always relative to how individuals value unclassifiable,
for if the aim is money, a spiritual find would be contrary.
Big treasures are sometimes found in, a psychic mind predictable.
I discovered good new treasures because I followed with a heart,
it led me to a unique way of life that I would live over again.
Some childhood friends I had found I still treasure them all to start,
some have passed over but I'm still richer for knowing them.
And there's my wife for life & children, I thank them for their part
Never forget that life is full of unseen & unknown human soul strife,
make sure you go through life marking all heart felt meanings.
We never see value in human friends in a lifetime full of drum & fife,
but, a heart force of love in us all will start a souls dreamings.
Nothing is more rewarding when you remember, Treasures Of Life.
What more can I say...? Life is simply beautiful!!
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