Hi,
Guess you people are doing well and it has been helter-skelter for me getting ready for my exams and working as well but then this wouldn't stop me from writing this blog... I feel what am about to write itching my finger tips and guys you have to help me out and I guess that's a promise from your side.
Love, most of you will agree with me is too sweet.Most often we ladies dream about the fairly tale love affairs where you meet that prince charming either you meet the right frog and kiss it or your prince charming has to rescue you from that haunted castle... whatever way one would want to meet his or her lover doesn't matter as long as you meet the right person.
I have a friend, I wont mention her name but my God while in University her talk was all about marriage and you know, that perfect marriage life and before graduation she was married but three years down the road she has separated with her husband and as I write this, she is promising never and I mean not even to allow a single drop of love into her life Lol!
In most cases we want to be loved and well give back that love as well but before you love someone have you thought about loving your self? I think and am sure that if one sat back, had aserious meeting with him or herself and the agenda should focus mainly on you and you alone, think about you, what is it about you that you are looking for in a relationship? How do you treat your self? Do you love your self? I belief a person will treat you according to the way you treat your self. Love your self first, pamper it, have a focus and when you think you are ready to settle down with someone go ahead but remember you should think about you its not that one should be selfish but if you don't love your self who will do it for you?
Often times when love turns sour and the parties involved go separate ways, the victim who is hurt most withdraws to herself or himself and becomes so reserved they come up with promises of never falling in love again. I know this stage can be so hurting emotionally but then you have to move on, its only you who can make change in your life no one else will do it for you. so, the earlier you do it the better for you!
Recently, a friend to my friend was asking her to get her a man and her reasons were that she was too lonely. By the way she was too blunt to the extent of saying she was missing sex! I don't know how some people regard loneliness but I believe that if you are someone who knows what you are you will always value yourself and off course sex is something intimate but its also good having it at the right time- guess you all know what I mean by the right time. Not being in arelationship should render one lonely, there are so many things one can do, like go watch movies, move out with your friends, have some fun, actually I normally tell my friends to have some time and do it alone what I mean is have abubble bath with all the perfumes you love, cook yourself your favourite dish then have acandle lite dinner for you with your best wine or champagne, listen to some good music and even dance, basically give yourself a good treat.
As for my friend's friend, I totally think she is thinking the wrong way and that's why in the beginning I asked for your help. Can some one be that lonely?? What can one do in order not to feel lonely? Tell me what you people out there think... I cant wait to hear from you.
Enjoy....
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